Cock Cages are one of the most amazing BDSM props. As the name says, they are used to cage the cock so as to prevent any act of masturbation or sex for a locked-in period. This very denial of orgasm creates mounting arousal in the sub which eventually breaks free into a powerful climax once you are set cage free. Cock cages are a delight both for the dom and sub in a BDSM play. While the dom finds it fun to deny orgasm to sub, the sub enjoys the mount up orgasm while in cage.
Are you too planning to try out cock cage play with your partner? Hey, that’s hot! But, remember, the cock cage sits on the most sensitive part of a male body. Thus, you must be extremely careful about the safety quotient while using it to ensure no risk of unwanted harm.
The post below shares a brief on safe play with cock cage.
SSSC Rules
The term “SSSC” stands for “Safe, Sane, Sober & Consensual”.
So, first, it should always be a safe act and no risky means should be attempted here. Don’t try to copy everything that you watch in porn movies. Remember, most of the acts there are camera antics and not really possible or safe in real life. You should always maintain a “safe” code in every cock cage act. In case your partner ever needs you to stop or open up the cage, he should utter that safety code and you must free him immediately.
Yes, BDSM acts are meant to drive both of you crazy in passion but that doesn’t mean that you will forget your levels of sanity. Cock cage play is a very delicate act and any rush or crazy move here could do more harm than good.
Then, maintain a certain level of sobriety despite the mounting enthusiasm and excitement to ensure things are always under control.
Finally, consent of both the partners is a “must” here. Don’t forget, your BDSM sessions are just acts of play and do not define the relationship of respect and love that you share with your partner. So, every act you include in your BDSM play, including cock cage session, should be consensual.
The entire acct should be pleasurable, fun and safe.
Get proper measurements
One of the key elements to ensure a safe cock cage play is perfect fitment of the cage around your partner’s penis. For that, you must always get the needed measurements so that the cage sits snug on the man’s genital. You can find different sizes of cock cages in Love Gasm.
The ring part
The ring of the cage must fit perfectly around the penis base and scrotum. It should not sit either too loose or too tight. If the cage is loose, it will slip off. And if it’s too tight, it may hamper the nerves there and also affect blood circulation.
Mind penis length & diameter
The cage must accommodate his entire penis in such a way that the penis tip lightly presses on end of cage. But, remember, there should not be any sort of compression here lest it would result in unwanted discomfort. And you won’t enjoy a seamless BDSM play if your partner is sitting uncomfortably in his cock cage.
If the cage is too long for his penis, it will be hard to reach erection. Besides, it will also cause problems during urination.
You should also take into account the diameter of his penis to get a complete measurement for the cage. And yes, the measurement should be taken when the penis is in a flaccid stage.
Taking the measurement
Now, that you have got the basic idea about the fitment of the cage, the next step is to het the measurement of your partner. The most important thing you will need here is your everyday ruler.
Measuring the length
Take the ruler and place it under his penis in such a way that the ruler’s tip rests against his scrotum. DO NOT press. It should only be a light touch. Note the number exactly where his penis tip ends.
Points to remember while taking measurements:
- The man must be in 100% flaccid mode while you take the measurements
- Don’t get an overtly big number as it will only result in an ill-fitted cage
- Measurements should be taken multiple times throughout the day to get the average number
Measuring the diameter
First of all, place the penis (in flaccid mode) on ruler and gauge its width to get the diameter. Then, subtract around half inch from that measurement to ensure a snug fit.
If you are looking for approximate measurement of circumference, just multiply this diameter with 3.14 (pi). Then, get a measuring tape and measure around his penis to compare and achieve the average number.
Get a trial
After you get the measurements, your man should get a trial.
Make him wear the cage and check the fitment. If the cage allows you to stick a finger inside in between his penis and ring, things are okay. But if the finger is having trouble in getting inside, the cage is just too tight for your man. In that case, you have to get the next size for him. As mentioned earlier, a cage too tight is damaging for the wearer.
On the other hand, if your finger gets huge room to get inside, the cage is too loose. In that case, go down to the previous size till you can manage a snug cage.
After you get a fitting cage, ask your man to wear it for some time to get a hang of it. He should leave the cage on for a few hours straight and continue with his daily routine. Now, it’s normal to experience slight discomfort with the cage on initially. After all, it’s a foreign element sitting on your body. But if the fitment is right, the discomfort will leave after an hour or so. However, if the discomfort seems to be persistent, you may need to re-check the size of the cage.