Why Chastity Is An Important Key To A Satisfying BDSM Play?

The game of male chastity lifestyle is a type of BDSM game, which consists in the refusal of a person to have sex or masturbation. In this article we want to talk about the game of chastity, the toys that are used in the process and why some people like it. We are going to explain what it is, to consider the most common devices used and then about why people are interested.

So today we are talking about chastity. We hope everyone knows this word from school, but if not, then chastity is sexual abstinence. In our society, chastity is often referred to as sexual abstinence before marriage. In the meaning of BDSM chastity is abstinence at any time.

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Chastity belt

Usually used in such games to strengthen the roles of the master and the subordinate. The subordinate wears a belt, and the master (who is called the keeper of the keys, since he has the keys to the belt) determines the rules for wearing the belt. Often both partners enjoy this activity. The master has complete control over sex life, because he can control when he and his partner have sex. The belt can also be used as a punishment, as a subordinate often becomes sexually unsatisfied. Mister is excited from being able to control everything, enjoying his power. He can exchange with a subordinate, for example, 30 minutes of oral sex for release. Or the master may enjoy teasing and refusing the subordinate. A gentleman can also enjoy the look of a belt. There are many options why people like to do this, but basically this is a feeling of power. These are gaining and losing power, fulfilling the roles of master and subordinate.

 There are belts for both women and men, but they, of course, are very different. Sometimes the goal of the belt is just not to let the partner have sex, but sometimes they are used to prevent a person from masturbating. It all depends on the type of constraints that the belt creates.

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There are 2 main types of belts:

The item in the form of a belt can be used by both men and women.

Men’s belt of fidelity consists of a belt over the hips of the subordinate and a metal part, which is located between the legs. As a rule, it is a tube or sleeve in which the member is placed. The belt prevents the penis from rising and closes access to the genitals. Usually the eggs remain outside. Simply put, this is a belt with a tube that supports the penis. The belt is attached above the thighs so that the man cannot take it off. The tube closes access to the genitals. As a rule, all parts are closed. Thus, there is a lock on the belt and on the tube.

Women’s belts of similar action: They also have a belt over the thighs and a metal part that covers the genitals and does not allow sex and masturbation. Belts are most often made of leather or metal. Metal is more durable than leather. Often in the belts there are openings for urination. The skin has more pores and therefore does not last long when exposed to urine.

Sometimes there is space on the belts for the anal plug. This plug creates additional stimulation of the anus. As a rule, there is a rectangle in the anus to maintain the cork. The cork is inserted before the belt is closed, since there is not enough space to pull it out when the belt is closed.

There are women’s belts that are designed in such a way that they can hold a dildo inside their female partner. Again, there is not enough space between the body and the belt and the phallus can only be removed when the belt is removed. Both the phallus and the cork add sexual dissatisfaction to the partner, since the one who wears the belt receives stimulation but does not receive sexual discharge.

Some belts are designed for people with genital piercing. Piercing is inserted into the belt for greater reliability. For example, if a man has his head pierced with a penis, he can insert the penis into a sleeve in which there is a hole where you can insert a piece of jewelry through the sleeve into the head of the penis. Then the decoration can be closed and the penis will be held both by the sleeve and the piercing for greater reliability.

Cell Belt released is only for men. It consists of a ring that is placed behind the testicles and is attached to the sleeve that holds the penis, preventing it from getting up. The tube should sit so as not to allow the member to stand, but not too tight, as this can block the flow of blood to the member. Such belts are usually made of leather, silicone or metal. Again, metal and silicone are more durable for everyday wear, as the urine does not destroy them. Usually at the end of the tube there is a hole for urination. This belt can also be used with piercing.

Along with the belts, you gain confidence in your partner, but always adhere to security measures. The tighter the belt, the more attentive you need to be. You must be sure that a normal rush of blood is maintained, that the rules of hygiene are maintained and that in case of emergency it will be possible to easily remove the belt. It is necessary to maintain a normal rush of blood and therefore the man should watch for sharp changes in the color of the genitals (some changes to the purplish color are considered normal), pain sensations that increase.

Lack of ejaculation can adversely affect men’s health. Frequent ejaculation reduces the risk of prostatitis. If you are going to use the belt for a long time, read about this disease and consult your doctor. We hope that now you have an idea of ??what chastity belts are and why they are used.

What other models used?

I have tried a fully bon4 silicone cell. She fits better, but I had various other problems with her. Namely, I could not properly lubricate it, and after about an hour it seemed to me that someone had tied up my cock with scotch and was trying to rip it off.

I had a comparatively cheap metal cage bought from the Purple Passion, which looked alike a bunch of rings jointed together. I managed wearing it for several days in a row without any irritation or complaints. She was a bit heavy, so I used a thin nylon rope to make a kind of belt that lightened weight.

How much time did you spend locked up?

The longest period was four days, which is significantly shorter compared to what other guys I know do. I do not have a master or regular partners for games, so I shackle myself. My advice for people who would like to try: ask who you can borrow from friends, because they are not cheap. Wear it for several days and ask someone to become your key master. Most cells must be removed minimum once in a week to clean and inspect your household for any abrasions, cuts, or rashes, and the like. The size of the device is selected depending on the size of the penis. There are options that can change their size – the distance from the root of the member is governed by a set of rings that are included in the kit.